Category Archives: My Life

Destiny

Who can say for sure how much or if any thing in our lives is predestined. Sometimes when I am feeling drained by challenges, I wonder what did I ever do to deserve this? Is the bad karma because we were the worst people in a prior life? I don’t know. I think I don’t really believe in that.

Or is it that we want to feel like we are in control of our lives. I can say from my experience that we are not in control of everything. I have had choices and opportunities and thought I was making the best choices at various times of my life.

I also know that things can happen to us that we did not expect or choose and the choice we have then is how we move forward.


This Note is for Writer’ Workshop hosted by John Holton.

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Featured image ‘Fortune Teller’ photo by Andrew Kuchling on Flickrcom

Mosquitos Are Productive ( in a bad way)

Since moving to the desert 5 years ago, I have become acquainted with a pesky pest that drives me buggy. It’s scientific name is Aedes aegypti.

These little buggers are very adept at reproducing. Some other charming characteristics are they are very small which makes them hard to spot, especially when your eyesight is not as good as it used to be. Their bites are very itchy and produce a good sized bump on my skin. I don’t feel them when they land on me. I sometimes think I see a tiny insect flying by that quickly disappears from sight.

I did have our local vector control here to spray outside about a month ago. I think I need them back. In the meantime, I have invested in various products to combat these little invaders.

I’m applying insect repellant at night so I don’t have to sleep wrapped in my covers, during the hot summer nights, just to keep the bugs from getting to me.

These buggers can carry some nasty diseases too.

Aedes Aegypti image via Coachella Valley Mosquito and Vector Control District

Wish me luck!


This post is part of the Writer’s Workshop hosted by John Holton. One of our prompts for this week is ‘product’.

Coincidence or Synchronicity

 ” Sychronicity -the coincidental occurrence of events and especially psychic events (such as similar thoughts in widely separated persons or a mental image of an unexpected event before it happens) that seem related but are not explained by conventional mechanisms of causality…” (Merriam Webster.com)

I’ve had the experience more times than I can count. I am thinking about my daughter and she calls. I am thinking about her and feel something may be wrong. I call her and find out she is having some problem. Or I will say something and my husband will say he was thinking the exact say thing. Many of you may have had these experiences too. I don’t think of them as coincidences do you?


This post is part of Stream of Consciousness Saturday’s prompt ‘Coincidence.’ Featured image ‘Solitude and the Sea’ by the artist Jacques Bodin

Around The Bend

I do love word games like ‘Spelling Bee’ or Wordle. I like the challenge of trying to find words with a certain amount of letters. I like it when I can think of lots of words with the same endings or similar sounds, when the suffixes are the same like -ion.

I do like my own language, American English. English is made up of words from many different countries though. And I do like learning about word origins.

It’s harder for me to learn new words these days. I attribute this in part to sleep deprivation. But maybe the new words are not as comforting to me as the ones I already have tucked away in my brain.


These ramblings are for ‘Writer’s Workshop.’ Featured image via macey11@pixabay.com

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Ho, Ho, Happy Holidays

We’re in an atmospheric river here in Southern California. ☔ So I am skipping last minute in person shopping. Just going to make do with what I have here already for meals and gifts. Have to drive to the airport this afternoon, though. Hope I don’t encounter any flooded roads.

Wishing you all Happy Holidays! 🎄🎁🎉


Featured image via Pixabay.com

Turkey Time

This is the first year in a long time since I am not making Thanksgiving dinner at my house. My brother-in-law will be doing it. I am bringing some side dishes. I think this is a good idea, to take a break. The most important thing is to spend time with my kids and grandson.

Wishing you all a Happy Thanksgiving. 🦃


Featured image by Jill Wellington on Pixabay.com

Play On Words

I feel a little zany when it’s rainy

Silly dilly

willy nilly

loosey goosey

Gobbledygook.

Freeing up my creative juices a bit on a rainy Saturday. An atmospheric river is running by Southern California and we are getting a light sprinkling here in the desert so far this morning.

Light rain this morning

Zany bird image by Alexas_Fotos via Pixabay.com

A New Note

Image by Ninita_7 via Pixabay.com

It feels hard to start writing. Has it really been a year since I have written on my blog? I got notices that fees were due to keep the blog open and I would think of closing it down. But I was not ready end it. I thought I might write again.

I love this image of the mailboxes, the different shapes and colors. If I had a mailbox like this I would love getting letters even more than I do now.

Hello Again

Exercising my writing muscles. Definitely feeling rusty and lethargic. Sleep deprivation could be a contributing factor. More on that later.

How are you all doing on your journey through life? Are you driving, or taking an Uber? Are you being swept along in strong currents? Do you have a sturdy craft or at least a good life jacket? I feel like I barely have floaties lately. Maybe only one floatie.

‘Let’s go swimming’ by peasap via Wikimedia.orgI