” To love oneself is to struggle to rediscover and maintain your uniqueness.”
–Leo Buscaglia
Friend, pal, ally, buddy, companion, to love. Can you be a good friend to yourself? Be still and listen to that inner voice, listen to what it has to say about who you are, what you love and care about, what makes you happy or joyful, sad or angry, or inspired. Accept all your feelings and accept yourself.
“Loving yourself…does not mean being self-absorbed or narcissistic, or disregarding others. Rather it means welcoming yourself as the most honored guest in your own heart, a guest worthy of respect, a lovable companion.”–Margo Anand
I can be happy in moments of solitude. Content. Alone with my thoughts. My reverie. It is good to be able to enjoy your own company. To enjoy spending time with yourself. Those who enjoy their own company are not afraid to be alone. This is a great strength.
My Inner Life
“Tis true my garments threadbare are,
And sorry poor I seem;
But inly I am richer far
Than any poet’s dream.
For I’ve a hidden life no one
Can ever hope to see;
A sacred sanctuary none
May share with me.
Aloof I stand from out the strife,
Within my heart a song;
By virtue of my inner life
I to myself belong.
Against man-ruling I rebel,
Yet do not fear defeat,
For to my secret citadel
I may retreat.
Oh you who have an inner life
Beyond this dismal day
With wars and evil rumours rife,
Go blessedly your way.
Your refuge hold inviolate;
Unto yourself be true,
And shield serene from sordid fate
The Real You.”
–Robert W. Service
Reblogged this on Loving Me, Too and commented:
Introverts will totally get this. But we do need to love ourselves before we can have a healthy relationship with another person. Thank you Deborah for understanding and sharing the value of loving ourselves.
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Thank You JoAnne and for the reblog. ❤
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Loving yourself is so hard to do but so important! Great post!
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Thank you Kat. Yes we have to have a good relationship with ourselves and have compassion for the parts we find hard to accept.
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Such an important lesson. Thanks for reminding us.
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Thank You Dan. ❤
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How very true, Deborah.
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Thanks Anna. ❤
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This is so true, thanks. I love being alone, when I’m able to do my best thinking without the distraction of other’s views. Before I was retired – it happened in the shower in the morning – now it can happen almost anytime!
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I am glad this resonated with you and other bloggers. Yes, there are many of us that feel this way I think. ❤
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You are so right about needing to love ourselves, enjoy our own company, and treat ourselves as well as we would treat others. Beautiful reminder, thank you.
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You are welcome. Thank You.
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🙂 great post 🙂
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Thank You. ❤
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Beautiful, Deborah. Love it.
Coincidently I posted about self as well. We thought alike.
Happy weekend.
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Thank You. ❤ I have to read your post. Great minds think alike. xo
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This has to be one of the best thoughts I read… A friendship with your own self is so important! Brilliant!
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Thanks, Prajakta. ❤
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I’ve been practicing this important lesson of self-love for quite some time… It’s tough at times but I have to remember me and my quality time alone is so vital to my existence!
Thank you for sharing this with us:)
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I agree. Thanks Lia. ❤
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